Thomas Edward Gargis of Seguin, Texas … husband, father, brother and friend … left us on August 25, 2025, at the age of 80. “Tom” or “Tommy,” as he was called by those close to him, lived a beautiful life full of adventure, optimism and, above all things, love.
Tom is survived by his devoted wife, Judy Dykes Gargis, his cherished daughters Jennifer Marie Meyer and son-in-law Doug Meyer of Cedar Park, and Jana Lynn Albright and son-in-law Eric Albright of Seal Beach, California. Tom is also survived by Jennifer’s mother, Debra “Debbie” Burgess Kay and her husband, JL Kay of Crowley and Tom’s grandchildren, who were his pride and joy: Luke Meyer, Eli Meyer, Connor Albright and Kaybree Albright. Tom is the brother of Ronald “Ronnie” Steven Gargis and his wife, Debbie Gargis, of Fort Worth, Texas and Karen Jane Johnson and her husband, Brent Johnson, of Duncan, Oklahoma. Tom is also survived by his sister-in-law, Lindey Stoddard, and her husband, Robin Stoddard, of Corpus Christi, Texas.
Tom is uncle to his nephews, Marc Gargis (and wife Melanie), Brad Gargis, Robbie Stoddard (and wife Christy), niece Erin Alizadeh (and husband Robin) and numerous great nieces, nephews, cousins and countless friends across many states.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Olin Thomas Gargis and Mildred Jane Gargis of Fort Worth, Texas and his niece, Melissa Vincent and nephew, Jeff Johnson.
Tom and Judy had a wonderful marriage and were true partners in all they did. They became grandparents together and enjoyed everything from dancing, camping, fishing, gardening, and just sitting on the back porch, appreciating the grandeur of nature and the design of their home. Tom was so proud of Jennifer, as he watched her grow, performing in numerous dance recitals, graduating from Texas Tech University and pursuing a long, successful career in the technology industry. Jana graduated from Texas A&M University, served as a lifelong teacher and enjoyed spending time with Tom on multiple trips, sharing a love of the outdoors and nature. Tom’s grandchildren were truly the light of his life. He always talked about Luke’s congeniality and ‘natural’ fishing ability, Eli’s strength and sturdy character, Connor’s big heart and free spirit, and Kaybree’s undeniable resilience and devotion.
Tom never met a stranger and was always ready to seize any opportunity. He graduated from Polytechnic High School in Fort Worth, during which time he worked at the Great Atlantic & Pacific Tea Company (A&P). He went on to serve in the United States Military Reserves, then later as a Staff Sergeant in the Air Force, primarily in Japan and Guam from 1966 to 1970. Tom later worked for the gas company and then became a Master Electrician. He could also be called a Master Fisherman, Master Gardener, Master Designer and Master Cook. Tom never did anything halfway, always deeply researching whatever captured his attention. He was exacting, particular and thorough. From bird dogs and butterflies to birds and blooms, he could tell you all about their origin and how they thrived. If you were lucky enough, he’d do all of this over some Buck Owens and a cold beer … but only Miller Lite. He loved sharing his garden’s harvest and charismatic stories with neighbors and friends. Tom always had a (devilish) twinkle in his eye and a (guilty) grin on his face … just enough to make you feel at home and welcome. He was a friend to everybody.
Although diagnosed with cancer in August of 2024, Tom never lost his positive outlook on life. He was determined to fight and insisted on showing relentless appreciation for the VA and all of his nurses and doctors for their care and attention. He found joy in visits from his family, his friends and of course the companionship of his sweetheart, Judy.
Tom enjoyed his life to the fullest. His personality infected those privileged enough to meet him, and he made everyone feel welcome and valued. He was surrounded by love when he left us. Although there is now a hole in our hearts that nothing will ever ease, we take comfort in knowing that angels guided him to his everlasting garden in heaven, where he can sow love for eternity.
Visitation will begin on Thursday, September 11, 2025 at Tres Hewell Mortuary from 5 to 7 p.m. Funeral service will be on Friday, September 12, 2025 at 2 p.m. at Christ Lutheran of Elm Creek Church with the Reverend David Tinker officiating. Interment with military honors will follow in the Christ Lutheran of Elm Creek Cemetery. A reception will follow in the fellowship hall.
Tom’s pallbearers will be his grandchildren Luke, Eli, Connor and Kaybree, his sons-in-law Doug Meyer and Eric Albright, his nephew Marc Gargis and his brother-in-law Robin Stoddard.
Memorial contributions may be made to Christ Lutheran Church of Elm Creek, 3305 Church Road, Seguin, Texas, 78155 or to the Disabled American Veterans organization at the following link: https://www.dav.org/ways-to-give/
You are invited to sign the guestbook at www.treshewell.com. Arrangements are under the direction of Tres Hewell Mortuary, 165 Tor Dr., Seguin, Texas, 78155, 830-549-5912.